The recent blogs about controlling anger, and being tolerant of others perceived negativity, have helped a lot. If our karmic happiness and distress is predestined, then it means we must deserve what we are experiencing and to end this cycle of action and reaction one must relax into and experience tolerance. This is what I understood from your blog . Although it seems very difficult I am willing to try. Any other advice in this area of tolerance would be appreciated. Jaya Sri Radha Govinda !